tries to do things: becomes overridden with anxiety

doesn’t do things: becomes overridden with anxiety

(via laura-the)



my two loves

(via fit-babydoll)


Thinking about you on a rainy afternoon (by *Nishe)
“Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.”


"She got The Politest Student of the Month Award."


I saw this today and I had to take a picture of it. This is why you have to “live” and appreciate what you have in the moment. Are you living or just surviving?

(via florissante-toujours)





Waimanu, Big Island, Hawai’i

this is actually my dream. once i was hiking in kauai with my mama and i was probably 13 or so and we met this german lady who was hiking out of the valley and she had no idea what day it was or how long she was out there, and i’ve dreamed of being that sweet lady ever since then :’) looks so magical 

☮ ☽  ☼☯  ॐ ☁ ❉  

I need to go back to Hawaii and I need to go camping there